Ok, she’s with you. For the first time. It took you a few hours to hook the hottest girl up in a club (or find her on a hookup site), so now she’s taking the last sips of her cocktail, and two of you are ready to head for your place. Then you know what will happen: passionate night will drive you crazy. Or not. If you ejaculate too early.
Premature ejaculation can be a severe obstacle on your way to pleasing yourself and sexy girls. Even if you don’t suffer from this disorder, you might wish your sexual act to last longer. So well, here’s what you need to do to impress hot babes.
Visit a Doctor. Just to Be Sure
If you have noticed that you cum in one minute after you started (and then you apologize a thousand time in front of your beautiful girl), you might have some disorders. To clarify what is wrong (or maybe there’s nothing wrong at all), you better visit a doctor.
For now, all you need to know that there are different types of PE: lifelong and acquired. The last ones can be triggered by stress, lack of sleep and unhealthy lifestyle overall.
By the way, no scientist can tell you what the exact needed time for cumming is. Everything is individual, so if you have any concerns, make sure you share them with a specialist before you decide to buy some products online.
If you are okay and just want your night to be awe-inspiring, scroll down to see the following tips.
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Use Some Techniques to Last LONGER
1. The ‘squeeze’
Learn how to distract yourself from getting an orgasm. Here you need to identify when you are about to cum. If that’s the moment, withdraw your tool and put some pressure at the base of its head with your thumb on top and other fingers underneath. It can help you to decrease or increase sexual sensations.
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2. The ‘stop-start’
This one resembles the ‘squeeze,’ but there’s no putting pressure on your penis. Remember, that to get used to this method you need to start practicing it from the beginning of your sexual act. You pull out, breath in, continue. The ‘stop-start’ can give you more control over your cock.
However, and it is relevant for the ‘squeeze’ as well, you won’t succeed if there’s no understanding from your partner. So let your hot girl involved in the game.
3. Tantric practices
These ones are highly related to relaxation, breathing techniques, and conscious presence. All these three components are crucial and need to be implemented mindfully. If you want to impress hot chicks, if you want to control your arousals and erections, then these are the best.
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Try New Sex Positions
If you have been wondering, which positions you could use to leave sexy girls with eyes wide open, try out “Yab Yum,” a position, in which your girl will be sitting on you with her face towards your face, embracing your waist with her legs.
But this is not the only position that can make you last longer. All positions in which a woman is on top of you will prevent you from the early orgasm, as well as side-by-side positions.
Try massage oils and/or edible ointments
How to last longer during sex with just some liquids like oils and ointments? Massage oils can be relaxing, energizing, turning on, and warming up. Try different types and come up with the best one for you and your partner. Oils help you get 100% free of other thoughts, and rubbing a girl's back or ass is what can give you a hard-on in a heartbeat. Oils can even help warm your little friend up and stay hard for a bit longer. Combine them with candles, some romantic music, and you`ll never get enough of it.
Among other techniques to lasting longer in bed is using edible ointments. They can be water-based, oil-based, or silicone-based and have different flavors! What are you up to today, banana, strawberry, or maybe milk chocolate? You can also use them as a massaging cream and then lick it before you stick it. Passionate massages and spreading aromatic oils over your partner`s body is nothing else but hot, so you can get turned on before the intercourse, continue with foreplay, and then move on to the very sex act. While enjoying the moment, forget about the rush. But don`t fall asleep, dude.
Try different speed to train your durability
Trying to switch a speed or frequency is a good way to slow down but keep going for longer. This is a somewhat relaxing time when you don't have enough sperm ready to burst. That's why you need to train your speed and understand when to finish better. And sure, feel your partner. She can also give you some signs or help you last longer, if she's not a brick, of course. Ask her to control your speed and force, so that you can both get the maximum out of it.
Don`t ignore a good foreplay
Another tip for lasting longer in bed is mutual or consecutive masturbation before intercourse. This heats up your weenie, and your chicks get wetter and hotter. You both are turned on but still full of energy to have amazing sex. The right timing and a top pussy play are your perfect recipe for lasting longer. Everyone's happy, you don't finish beforehand, and your chick is pleased in all the possible ways.
What else helps you stay hard longer? Dirty talks during sex. You may know chicks usually ask to call them bitches or sluts or any other bad name to get hornier. The same works for men. When a chick tells a guy what she`s going to do to him in bed, or even when she calls him names makes him turn on more and fuck a girl even harder. Better, faster, stronger. Right?
Explore sex toys for fun and BDSM for tough love
For many guys and chicks, BDSM games and sex toys are favorite ways to prolong sex. They help you focus not only on the sex act but also on your partner. You turn simple intercourse into a play where you two can change the rules. When you think of other ways of pleasing or teasing your chick, your goal is to last longer and make it unforgettable, so your brain will make you last longer, even if you think your penis can`t. The fact you`re not just fucking a girl but playing with her gives you more time and opportunities to finish an act any time you want or need.
Ready to do chicks in bed for hours?!
You can stay hard longer and bring tons of orgasms to numerous chicks around. Find an approach to every girl you`re knocking boots with, ask about her preferences, and let yourself do some crazy thing time after time. This feeling of surprise can turn on even better than a good blowjob, note it to yourself.